the importance of her

The girlfriend that knows you, no explanation, laughs and gets you. Do you have a BFF? It’s really important to have her in life, and you’re politely fucked if you don’t. Not sure she exists? In all my endeavours of … Continue reading

Our family lockdown

Where we live looks out to the city harbour of a small city and further out to the ocean.¬† Our bedroom is upstairs and the view is magnificent. The vast sea view is divided by a causeway which links two … Continue reading

unsent letter – a family breaking up

A couple I have known for quite a few years are at the early stage of separating. He’s furious, jealous and out to take her down. He’s making it feel it’s all her fault and she should suffer. She’s being … Continue reading

“Why did she stay?”

Often when you hear about women in abusive relationships, people think why would you stay if you knew it was bad. If he hits you, get out, walk away and never consider you deserved it and never should someone justify … Continue reading

Learning what is ‘normal’ after an unbalanced relationship.

I run a company and live a vibrant life. However, I am quite traditional and therefore accept that the core of the domestic role in the home is my responsibility. My partner is a great cook and enjoys cooking most … Continue reading

Set Goals

Know what you want otherwise how do you get to where you are going if you don’t know where it is? Choose some small achievable goals, feel excited about it, get it done this week sorta goals. At the same … Continue reading

Walking into the lions den. Except now I am the lion.

I tend not to vent my feelings about the legal complications of my life to my friends. Each situation feels extremely significant to me. If I was to explain each case matter and crazy issue, which sounds like it’s from … Continue reading

Not all relationships are meant to last forever

I chose to leave a twenty year relationship. I’m now in my fourth year from when I had to leave and the intensity of my battle is not over. I realised yesterday I’m feeling angry for I still don’t have … Continue reading