The kiss is the sample of what sex with them will be like. Boring, sloppy, wet, gooey, not passionate, too much tongue… that’s a simple version of how good or bad the rest of their sexual moves will be like. If it’s not great, don’t sleep with them. Or driven, firm, seductive, passionate, teasing, soft, bounding, turns you on then you are likely to be heading in the right direction. Don’t take it further if it’s not.
Sex is a wonderful aspect of life. For men it is way of connecting with the woman he knows. Lack of physical connection makes him distance himself from you. For woman it is the thermometer for turning winter into spring. Being great in bed does this keep a relationship strong? Does it keep your man?
Have an orgasm everyday, fantasize, be sexually aroused. These are good things in life. No they don’t have to be spoken of but don’t shy away from the thought that it is not important. My father said to me when I was young as he spoke of his relationship with his first wife, we were in the drive way as we said good night to some friends. (He was speaking of his first wife) he said “sex is not the most important aspect of a relationship but it’s in trouble if it’s not there.”
Treat it lightly, have fun with it. How enjoyable for him to be away from you and think of the fun he had.