Our family lockdown

Where we live looks out to the city harbour of a small city and further out to the ocean.  Our bedroom is upstairs and the view is magnificent. The vast sea view is divided by a causeway which links two … Continue reading

Learning what is ‘normal’ after an unbalanced relationship.

I run a company and live a vibrant life. However, I am quite traditional and therefore accept that the core of the domestic role in the home is my responsibility. My partner is a great cook and enjoys cooking most … Continue reading

New chapter – out of the fog

Patience.. I have been told to be patient, that even though it seems a long journey you are actually achieving and making progress. Great check! Remind myself and carry on. Trust your intuition! Listen to your instincts they are good. … Continue reading

Like you’re being filmed

Sex is a wonderful aspect of life. For men it is way of connecting with the woman he knows. Lack of physical connection makes him distance himself from you. For woman it is the thermometer for turning winter into spring. Being great in bed does this keep a relationship strong? Does it keep your man?
Have an orgasm everyday, fantasise, be sexually aroused. These are good things in life. No they don’t have to be spoken of but don’t shy away from the thought that it is not important. My father said to me when I was young as he spoke of his relationship with his first wife, we were in the drive way as we said good night to some friends. (He was speaking of his first wife) he said “sex is not the most important aspect of a relationship but it’s in trouble if it’s not there.”

Treat it lightly, have fun with it. How enjoyable for him to be away from you and think of the fun he had.

take the moment

take the moment