being all to everyone

Women have five pillars of strength Lover – wife – mother – friend – family Accomplishing all these roles well with grace, kindness, passion & humor is challenging. Meeting expectations of yourself and others plays in one’s mind. A male … Continue reading

expectations in life

I grew up claiming that I did not have expectations of my first father. Meaning that if I did not expect anything then I would not be disappointed. Then anything given be it a phone call, a visit, time, kindness, … Continue reading

like you’re being filmed

Sex is a wonderful aspect of life. For men it is way of connecting with the woman he knows. Lack of physical connection makes him distance himself from you. For woman it is the thermometer for turning winter into spring. Being great in bed does this keep a relationship strong? Does it keep your man?
Have an orgasm everyday, fantasize, be sexually aroused. These are good things in life. No they don’t have to be spoken of but don’t shy away from the thought that it is not important. My father said to me when I was young as he spoke of his relationship with his first wife, we were in the drive way as we said good night to some friends. (He was speaking of his first wife) he said “sex is not the most important aspect of a relationship but it’s in trouble if it’s not there.”

Treat it lightly, have fun with it. If you are in a long term relationship, your man deserves to get laid. Fuck well, make noise, go down on him- why not. How enjoyable for him to be away from you and think of the fun he had.

take the moment

take the moment

Ruby Jane’s contribution to life

definition of my blog: noun, adverb, to express – To be able to express your thoughts and your opinion without the thought of it being analysed to reflect your daily life in the world you live. To express oneself in an open forum. To be honest with the idea to entertain and share ones understanding of being a great woman.

appreciate every moment

appreciate every moment