In 2012 I explained aspects of my husbands behaviour to a woman I met when I was upset by his moment of revolting criticism. Up until then I had considered his traits as unique. She started to explain her story … Continue reading
I was at a luncheon with women yesterday, beautiful, successful and elegant women, mostly married with children. The kind of lunch I shy away from like the coffee groups I didn’t go to. It was held for a girlfriends birthday … Continue reading
Sex is a wonderful aspect of life. For men it is way of connecting with the woman he knows. Lack of physical connection makes him distance himself from you. For woman it is the thermometer for turning winter into spring. Being great in bed does this keep a relationship strong? Does it keep your man?
Have an orgasm everyday, fantasize, be sexually aroused. These are good things in life. No they don’t have to be spoken of but don’t shy away from the thought that it is not important. My father said to me when I was young as he spoke of his relationship with his first wife, we were in the drive way as we said good night to some friends. (He was speaking of his first wife) he said “sex is not the most important aspect of a relationship but it’s in trouble if it’s not there.”
Treat it lightly, have fun with it. If you are in a long term relationship, your man deserves to get laid. Fuck well, make noise, go down on him- why not. How enjoyable for him to be away from you and think of the fun he had.